“Thainess” is an identity that defines who we are as Thai people whether it is our language, food, or culture. These things may seem ordinary when we are in our homeland, but when I moved to study in the United Kingdom, my sense of being Thai became more vivid than ever. It is not just about what we eat or how we speak, but about the roots that shape who I am today.
When I first came to study abroad, the biggest challenge I faced was financial difficulty. To support myself, I looked for a part-time job. Many people suggested I apply at a Thai restaurant, and there, I experienced “Thainess” from another perspective. The owner and staff didn’t treat me as just an employee, they welcomed me like family. They shared meals with me, gave me advice, and often asked how I was adjusting to university life. Such warmth and kindness are not values you find in every culture.
I once asked a Vietnamese friend why he didn’t work at a Vietnamese restaurant. He told me that the owner said, “Since I’m paying you, just work like everyone else.” That simple contrast made me realize how Thai hospitality and generosity truly stand out, they are at the heart of what it means to be Thai.
Thai food abroad is often adjusted to suit local tastes. For example, Tom Yum soup might be turned into a ramen-style dish. Even though it’s not exactly like the original, the spicy and sour flavors still retain the unique Thai charm. Many of my international friends love how Thai food combines sweet, sour, and salty tastes in perfect balance.
Dishes like “Pad Thai” and “Tom Yum Goong” have even earned worldwide recognition. CNN Travel once listed “Tom Yum Goong” among the 50 Best Foods in the World, showing that authentic Thai flavors remain unforgettable and loved around the globe.
Beyond cuisine, Thainess is also reflected in our everyday way of life. For example, the tradition of giving nicknames often surprises foreigners. In Thailand, every child is given a formal name, a surname, and a nickname which is not a shortened form like in the West, but often derived from random words or objects, such as Nam (water), Ploy (gem), or Kao (nine). This reflects the Thai sense of creativity and the close, affectionate bonds within families.
Another foundation of Thai warmth and kindness comes from our culture and religion. Although the UK is generally open and diverse, racism still exists in many places. One of my friends became interested in Buddhism because, as he said, “Buddhism rejects racism and believes that all life is interconnected.” She also added, “Thai people seem chill and kind that’s probably because of Buddhism; it’s all about being mindful and relaxed, so that makes sense.”
All of these experiences have made me believe that “Thainess” is not limited to our homeland. It is a root that gives us identity and helps us stand out on the global stage. It represents warmth, generosity, creativity, and a unique flavor that can be felt wherever we go, a quiet but proud statement that says, “This is who we are — we are Thai.”
Story by Burani Amorwetsunti
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